Monday, June 30, 2008

Stay smoke free (THE SECRET IS SIMPLE)

Stay smoke free (THE SECRET IS SIMPLE)

Hang on for five minutes.

I finally stayed smoke free in this way:

When the surprise attacks came a few weeks or months after quitting, I told myself, "Hang on for five minutes – and this out-of-control urge to smoke will pass."

After 11 failed attempts, I looked back and I realized that several times in the past, surprise attacks were ALWAYS the critical moment in which I would inevitably become re-addicted, as "innocent" as "just one cigarette" might seem.

As I wrestled with myself thinking about this during an attack, I thought, "Okay. Relief is about four minutes away..."

Still I was dying for a smoke – okay, so now it was just THREE more minutes to hold on for... Now TWO...

And sure enough, at the end of five minutes – the urge would be all gone, and I would be quite proud of myself for holding on (plus I got to deny my smoking friend his pleasure in seeing me light up like him).

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